Mary Carlile Barber Willett, 93, of Bardstown, died Saturday, May 3, 2025. She was a long time resident of Bardstown.
She was preceded death by her husband of 62 years, Charles D. Willett Sr.; and her parents, Ham and Prudence Clarkson Barber.
She is survived by four daughters, Prudence Kramer (Marc), Mary Catherine Turcotte (Jack), Harriet Hancock (Bill) and Cecelia Hansell; four sons, Jerry Willett, (Ellen), Charles D. “Sam” Willett, Jr (Kathy), Alex Willett and George Willett (Renee);
She was born and raised in Springfield and always proud of her Washington County heritage. She graduated from St. Dominic grade school. She then attended St. Catherine Academy in Springfield, graduating as valedictorian of her class. She was known for her wit, good humor and kindness.
She was a beautiful young lady with many interested suitors. When charming Charlie came along, the game changed and they married June 28, 1949 after just turning 18.
They had a wonderful marriage with a love of travel, friends, Notre Dame and Navy football games, college visits with their sons and daughters. In Charlie’s last moments, she held his hand and said “this is one more trip I would like to take with you” and now she is with him again.
She was a voracious reader and always had a book beside her. An early adopter of technology. Her iPhone and iPad were in constant use for card games, newspapers and email from friends and grandchildren.
She was also an avid sports fan, particularly devoted to horse racing and the annual NCAA college basketball tournament. An accomplished and respected player, she loved bridge. She also enjoyed bourbon, but not necessarily in that order.
Throughout her long life, she was good company and a devoted friend to many. She excelled in her primary vocation as a wife and mother and was adored by her eight children, 14 grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren. She had a remarkable memory, an engaging and genuine interest in all she encountered.
The family extends their sincere appreciation to her Nurse Practitioner Angels, Millie Riggs and Angela Ballard. Sister and daughter, Cece provided loving care and companionship for many years and we are truly grateful.
The Funeral MAss is 11 a.m. Monday, May 12, 2025, at the Basilica of St. Joseph Proto-Cathedral.
Visitation is 10-11 a.m. at the church.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to St. Joseph Parish, Bethlehem High School or St Dominic Grade School in Springfield.
Barlow Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.
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